Saturdays

My trip to Ecuador (The Child Survival Program)

2011-02-10T21:15:00.000-06:00

Thank Heaven for 2011?

2010-12-27T15:59:00.001-06:00

How was your 2010? Great? Mediocre? A Struggle?
Are you thinking, "Thank heaven! It's 2011!"
As I look over the past year, I am grateful for all the ups and downs of 2010. But, I know 2011 is going to be an amazing year! Not only am I excited about the adventures we have planned as a family for 2011, but I am also excited about Beachbody in 2011.
As I was reading Success Magazine last night, it dawned on me...I'm an Entrepreneur. I was reading the stories of the different people in the magazine who are entrepreneurs and I could relate to them. Then I thought, "When did I become an Entrepreneur?" It was the first day I said, "Yes," when my friend asked me to be a Beachbody Coach. I had no idea what I was getting myself into. I didn't know I was an Entrepreneur...I was just a stay-at-home mom who thought she'd like to make a little extra money for herself. $100 a month would be a great success! Little did I know what the next almost 4 years would have in store for me.
When I made the decision to say "Yes" to Beachbody: I did not let fear take a hold of me (because there was little to risk), I knew I wanted to make a change in the life of my family (because of the health of generations before me), and I had some goals (I wanted something to call my own).
Maybe you know someone who is ready for 2011 to be different. Maybe they don't see themselves as an entrepreneur but want to make a change. If so, I'd love to have them on my team. I'd love for them to be
saying for themselves at this time next year: I'm an Entrepreneur.

Prone to Wander

2010-09-12T21:44:00.003-05:00

In 1758, Robert Robinson wrote these words:
"Bind my wardering heart to Thee.
Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it.
Prone to leave the God I love;
Here's my heart, o take and seal it,
Seal it for Thy courts above."
The song was Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing and is still sung today in churches all around the world.
This song has been going over and over in my head this past week. So, I decided to do some research on it. I couldn't get over the fact that it was written in 1758 by Robert Robinson. Does't it seem like in those times, people didn't have the distractions to cause them to wander? I mean...what would cause them to wander? They worked, ate, and slept. They didn't have all the distractions we have today that cause us to wander. But, still, they were prone to wander. Even Eve was prone to wander. We just have that bent! Ugh!
I was thinking of several friends who have been caught in their deep sin lately. I don't think they just woke up one day and said, "I think I'm going to ruin my life and those around me. I'm going to...." No, they were prone to wander...just like we all are! The wandering is what causes the beginnings of the disaster. The longer you wander, the farther off you are and you don't think you can get back to where you were before.
I love the fact that Robinson asks of God to take his heart and seal it. Wrap it up tight, Lord, so that nothing can get in! But, the verses go on to acknowledge that he will struggle with sin all his days.
Have you been prone to wander lately? I sure have been and will continue to be. We've all been there. Maybe you've wandered away pretty far...let this song be your anthem today . (even if you don't use the words Thy, Fount, Ebenezer, fetter, and some of these other "old" words in our current speech).

Come , Thou Fount of every blessing,
Tune my heart to sing Thy grace;
Streams of mercy, never ceasing,
Call for songs of loudest praise.
Teach me some melodious sonnet,
Sung by flaming tongues above.
Praise the mount! I'm fxed upon it,
Mount of Thy redeeming love.

Sorrowing I shall be in spirit,
Till released from flesh and sin,
Yet from what I do inherit,
Here They praises I'll begin;
Here I raise my Ebenezer;
Here by They great help I've come;
And I hope, by They good pleasure,
Safely to arrive at home.

Jesus sought me when a stranger,
Wandering from the fold of God;
He, to rescue me from danger,
Interposed His precious blood;
How His kindness yet pursues me
Mortal tongue can never tell,
Clothed in flesh, till death shall loose me
I cannot proclaim it well.

O to grace how great a debtor
Daily I'm constrained to be!
Let They goodness, like a fetter,
Bind my wandering heart to Thee.
Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it.
prone to leave the God I love;
Here's my heart, O take and seal it,
Seal it for They courts above.

O that day when freed from sinning,
I shall see They lovely face;
Clothed then in blood washed linen
How I'll sing They sovereign grace;
Come, my Lord, no longer tarry,
Take my ransomed soul away;
Send thine angels now to carry
Me to realms of endless day.

Summer 2010

2010-08-22T13:51:00.002-05:00

I get so sad the last day of summer! Do you? So, I usually make a slideshow of all the fun we had...

To Adopt or Not to Adopt?

2010-02-01T11:15:00.003-06:00

About 5 or so years ago, Jeffrey and I started praying about adoption. Because we'd heard how expensive adoption was, we decided to go to a Foster/Adopt meeting through CPS (Child Protective Services). There was a lot of fear in me because of all the horror stories I'd heard. Shortly after the meeting, Jeffrey's company filed bankruptcy so we did not pursue adoption. A couple years later we decided to approach adoption again. Then, my dad got very sick and we had to forgo the adoption classes again. Two summers ago, on our 10 year anniversary trip to Barbados, Jeffrey and I decided to approach the adoption subject again. We decided we would look into adoption when we returned home. The following day, Jeffrey's company called and said they had sold 38 of the 58 stores. So, again...the timing wasn't right. As we were talking about our goals for 2010, the subject of adoption came up again. Our boys are now 10 and almost 8. We decided to pursue it for 6 months and if it didn't happen, we'd shut the door and know that wasn't our path. We also decided to pursue private adoption and CPS.
So, about 3 weeks ago, I sent our information to New Life Adoption Center. It is an amazing agency that bathes each placement in prayer and fasting. We got a response a week ago that we did not fit the qualifications because you can't be over 40 years old and adopt with their agency. Another door closed. Yesterday, we went to the Foster/Adoption Information Meeting. We decided to go with Covenant Kids Agency and are excited to see what God has in store. Maybe it is a "no" and the door will be shut forever. But, we are moving in that direction.
Did you know in the state of Texas, there are over 3,000 kids who are waiting for adoption? I can't stop thinking about them! My prayer today is that families would rise up to adopt them.
Yesterday, we talked to the boys about the process we are going through. Will was quiet and Jake was excited. Then, we started looking at kids online who need homes. It was interesting to hear the boys and their questions. Last night, when Jeffrey put the boys down for bed, Jake said, "Dad, it makes me want to cry thinking about the 3,000 kids that don't have families. I think we need to adopt 2!" So sweet!
We don't know where this road will take us but we know that God has placed on our hearts to have compassion for others. We're excited to see what He has in store for us!

Shakeology?

2010-01-28T14:55:00.001-06:00

Busy with Boys

2010-01-26T10:16:00.004-06:00

Yep! Being a MOB (Mother of Boys) is a busy task! When they were toddlers/preschool age you were busy chasing them and cleaning up after them. Now that they are in elementary school, you are busy driving them to various things, listening to their day (and wanting to punch the kid that was mean to them), teaching them life "things" (God, friends, etc.), and still cleaning up after them. :)
We've gotten ourselves into a new world of Modeling/Acting with Will. (Jake wants nothing to do with it...just give him a ball and he's happy). We had him take an Acting for Film Class at Cathryn's Sullivan's over the Christmas Break to gain some confidence and try something new. He had a great time! So, we sent in some pictures to some agencies and he was actually signed with one of them! He is now with The Campbell Agency. We've very excited about this new adventure. He had his "Headbook" Photo on Saturday and had a blast doing it! See...all my painful (to the boys) picture taking of those boys over the years has paid off! :)
Jake is enjoying playing basketball with Upward. That kid needs a ball in his hand at all times. He truly enjoys playing any sport! I love watching him just have fun!
Both boys will be seen every afternoon throwing the football. They both have their eyes set on the NFL. Will says he feels he will be picked up by Georgia Tech. Jake thinks he'll play for A & M, since they have a better team than Baylor. Will wants to be a Quarterback while Jake wants to be a Runningback.
They are both taking piano (which is painful to get them to practice) and will both be doing soccer this Spring (which actually starts February 13th).
This is such a teaching time in their lives and it sometimes overwhelms me. God has been faithful to calm my spirit and we've been blessed to spend some quality time together.
I'm excited to see what God has in store...

2009 Was Mighty Fine! :)

2009-12-31T13:48:00.001-06:00

Pine Cove Family Camp 2009

2009-09-08T16:19:00.005-05:00

Yesterday we got back from Pine Cove Family Camp Retreat. Wow! We are exhausted...but we had a blast!
We got there on Friday night about 5:30pm and left yesterday (Monday) at about noon.
On Friday night, after dinner we enjoyed family sing a long with the boys followed by game night and dessert. On Saturday morning, we woke up early (7:30am...yikes) to have breakfast. Then, we had family devotionals. After family Devos, the kids went with their counselors and we headed to listen to Gary DeSalvo speak. The boys had a blast riding horses and swimming/jumping on the giant blob! We all met up for lunch and you'd think we just chilled the rest of the day, right? Um...no! We were busy bees! Hiking, doing archery, bb guns, zip lines, and swimming in the pool (which had a giant slide...which I also rode on). We had dinner that night and then had fun games that night with Medieval Madness! 10:30pm was the bed time! The next day...same schedule. Busy weekend for sure!
It was our first time at Family Camp. The common question was, "How'd you hear about family camp?" We had friends that had told us about it. Our friend, Stephanie Weber, had asked us to go with them several times for the Palm Sunday weekend. Unfortunately, she passed away before we were able to join her. However, while I was there I would imagine what she was like at that camp. I imagined her cheering her kids on as they tried new things like the slides, ropes courses, etc. I imagined her meeting new people, getting close up to them, and asking them a million questions...all to get to know them. I imagined her loving the beauty of God's creations and thanking Him endlessly. I imagined her soaking in God's word as she listened to the Guest Speaker for that weekend. I imagined her enjoying the food. (I wonder if they had chips and queso? That was one of her favorite foods.) I imagined her taking one of her last family photos there. I imagined her making memories that her children will always remember.
I was grateful for her life all over again this weekend. She had shared with me the joy of family camp which enabled my family to share the same experience. What a blessing her life was...and continues to be! It definitely reminded me to live life to the fullest! :)

Summer 2009

2009-09-07T20:22:00.002-05:00

Summer 2009 started early this year. Jeffrey was offered a job in May and so we decided to take the kids out of school (a few weeks early) for a week to go to WaterColor, Florida. Wow! What an incredible treat! We felt like we were in a Pottery Barn catalog! The boys loved playing in the water and the sand. We enjoyed the time together and celebrated Jeffrey's new job that God had provided.
With the end of school, Will and I headed to Houston where he spent a few days with Nana and Papa while I got to play with my high school friends.
The first week of summer included Jeffrey starting his brand new job, the boys going to Vacation Bible School at Prestonwood, and Will & I starting rehearsal for Wizard of Oz at the community theatre. The boys loved Vacation Bible School and I enjoyed the time playing with my mom while she was here.
Wizard of Oz practices went on all summer: Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday Nights (7-10) and Saturdays (1-5). What was I thinking? Although, I was checking off something from my "bucket list", Will and I felt a little slighted on our summer!
In June, Will went to...wait for it...CAMP! Jeffrey and I were a wreck sending him (although we didn't show him). At least it was church camp and we knew most of the counselors. It was letting go time for Jeffrey and I. We anxiously awaited an updated blog entry each day hoping to spot a picture of Will on the uploaded pictures.
We enjoyed getting to spend a few days with the Parkers at Possum Kingdom lake and the boys experienced their first Sea Doo/Jet Ski ride...which they were terrified. It was a relaxing trip for us.
Because of rehearsals, we didn't get to go to Houston much but did manage a few days so we could catch the VBS of all VBSes at my dad's church. It was incredible! Jake was a big boy and stayed by himself in Houston the rest of the week.
For July 4th, we had a lawn party and watched a movie on our front lawn. It was nice to get together with the neighbors.
Mid-July, I went to the Breast Surgeon to check on a lump I had biopsied in April. We decided to have the lump removed the last week in July. Thankfully, my mother was here to help me recuperate. The lump was a benign papiloma and we were so grateful. The Lord gave me a glimpse into the world of Breast Cancer and it gave me a greater appreciation for the women Warriors of that horrible disease. Later that week we celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary and ramped up rehearsals for The Wizard of Oz.
The Wizard of Oz actually ended up being a lot of fun...although extremely time consuming. Our summer was over.
It was a summer of praises: Jeffrey's job and my benign tumor were huge blessings.
It was a summer of fun: lots of swimming and playing.
It was a summer of memories: doing things we've never done before.
Good bye Summer of '09!

Summer 2009 Slide

2009-09-07T20:21:00.001-05:00

Mother's Day 2009

2009-05-14T07:55:00.004-05:00

"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven." Ecclesiastes 3:1

This weekend, I celebrated my 9th Mother's Day. 9?! Where did the time go?
While Reading my "Victoriously Frazzled" bible study this morning, Ecclesiastes 3:1-13 was the scripture reading. You know it (or have at least heard the song): "A time to (blank), A Time to (blank)". The context was on "Aging". I'm "only" 35 but I've done some "aging". Yes, I'm getting gray hair and things are sagging but that is not the point. The point is I've aged in life. I've gotten some "bumps and bruises" along the way...and am so grateful for them.
There are seasons in our life. Seasons. I think of High School/College and the flirty girl I was. I think of being Single and feeling alone for the first time (but also learning to rely on my relationship with God more than ever). I think of being a Newly Wed and the expectations of that time. I think of being a new mom and feeling overwhelmed. I think of being a mom of preschoolers and again feeling overwhelmed. I think of being a mom of elementary students and feeling the "light at the end of the tunnel". I think of being married and learning it's not that easy.
I've looked back on all that I've learned (especially in the past 13 years since college) and have grown so much.
I'm not who I was even 2 years ago. God is constantly stretching me and growing me. That's why I think it is so funny where I am today. I tried out for Community Theatre this Mother's Day Weekend. Me! And I got the part of Aunt Em (I sure hope they don't make me look old)!
Truthfully, I'd kind of believed that "my life" was kind over a couple years ago. I kind of fell into a trap that "my time" was kind of over. I'd worked and had my kids. My dreams were gone. But, I think God has been showing me the past 2 years that he has more for me. Whether it is learning and growing as I lead a team with Beachbody or trying out for a play (neither of which I thought would EVER happen)...God's not done with me yet!
But, I had to go through the seasons...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2vO8l3zEVV8

CB

2009-03-27T15:18:00.001-05:00

I post a lot on my Facebook status update that I'm going to "CB". Wonder what "CB" stands for and why I go there a lot? "CB" stands for Corner Bakery. And it is in our new shops by our house (Shops of Highland Village). It is a great place! Healthy food (there are some unhealthy choices but mostly healthy), great atmosphere, and community feel. Oh, and did I mention FREE wireless and amazing Black Current Iced Tea (oh, my!)?
Today was a prime example of why I go there. I went to meet my friend, Morgan, and ran into about 10 other people I knew. You see, this is kind of my "Cheers" (remember that show?). Everybody knows my name! LOL!
It is what Community is all about. I always feel good when I go there and, most of the time, I enjoy an awesome conversation that spurs me on...mostly in my faith.
So, if you see I am going to CB...you'll know I'll be happy, sipping my Black Current Iced Tea and enjoying some amazing conversations with great friends! Come meet me at "my office".

The Jetsons

2009-03-26T11:08:00.002-05:00

The boys have been watching The Jetsons lately on "Boomerang" (great Cartoon Network that plays all the cartoons I watched when I was little).
Anyway, Jake said, "I wish we could do food like the Jetsons." The Jetsons have a selection and eat all their food by a pill (hot dog pills, turkey pot pie pill, etc.). I think that is funny because I remember thinking the same thing when I was his age.
But, I was thinking today...we kind of have that now! With Shakeology, it gives you all the fruits and vegetables you need in ONE shake (kind of like a pill). It's a meal in a shake! However, it has much better ingredients than The Jetsons food capsules and will be much easier on my hips. LOL!
To find out what Shakeology is, go to: www.Shakeology.com
You can order at: www.FunFitMom.com
You can tell your kids that you are eating like the Jetsons! :)

That Look In Her Eyes...

2009-03-24T08:32:00.003-05:00

I ran into a new mom yesterday at Walmart (yes, I shop at Walmart...but it's a fancy one in Highland Village). She had her almost 3 month old baby in her Baby Bjorn. I was excited to see her because I hadn't seen her since the baby was born. She had that look in her eyes. You know...the one of a new mom who looks overwhelmed, sleep deprived, and about to cry at anything? I felt for her. I was there and it was an all too familiar look. I wanted just to hold her and tell her..."IT GETS BETTER! PROMISE!".
We talked about her quitting her job and how money was tight. We talked about the Beachbody Business and I told her I wanted to help those with "That Look In Their Eyes". Those moms who are overwhelmed, strapped, and just plain tired!
I wish I had this Beachbody Business when my baby was 3 months old. I was so lost. I had quit my job because I KNEW I wanted to stay home but this was such a shift from working. I was in a sales job and talked all day long...to BIG people (adults). My baby didn't talk! I needed an outlet but was so overwhelmed by being a new mother...I didn't know where to start. Plus, I had NO structure. If you know me, you know that is one of my struggles.
I'm excited about helping those moms "with that look in their eyes" find a way. A way to not feel so overwhelmed, spend time with their children, feel good physically, find something of "their own", and be able to help their family financially. To be a Fun, Fit, Mom....

Prayers for Silent Followers...

2009-02-28T18:22:00.003-06:00

I visited my friend Kristen today at Parkland. Her dad, Reece, was in a terrible accident yesterday involving some sort of machinery. I've been friends with KBR since we were Freshmen at Baylor. We were roommates our Junior year and her family has always been so great to me.
Parkland in itself is an experience. So, I walked in dressed up from a meeting I came from...Pink coat and all. Let's just say...I was a little too dressed up! When Kristen's mom greeted me, she told me she'd been reading my blog for years! She knew all about my family. My blog? My boring blog? She knew all about me...she's a Silent Follower.
So, let's lift up my sweet "Silent Follower" and her family today as they wait in the cramped waiting room of Parkland. Pray for a speedy recovery, restful nights, and peace for all.

I've been Bamboozled!

2009-02-25T07:42:00.003-06:00

I realized lately that I've been Bamboozled! Why? Because I didn't realize it but I got myself in a Multi Level Marketing company (MLM). What? How did that happen? I've stuck my nose up in the air to "these types" of companies for as long as I can remember. Cheesy, slick salesmen are what MLMers are, right?
Two years ago, my friend Melissa called me to see if I wanted to join her with a company called Beachbody. I had seen her husband have a dramatic change in his body with the products so I knew it was a legit company but I didn't want to "sell" anything to my friends or family...and definitely didn't want to have "home parties" (shoot me now...who likes those things?). When she told me I got the customers from the company...I said, "Sign me up!" I guess I sort of knew it was a MLM but I think I was in denial. I was going to meet my requirements and that was it. I just needed a a little cash and a LOT of accountability to get healthy. Sounded like a perfect fit, right?
So, I started making $150 per week. I was thrilled! I got my hair colored, went to lunch with my friends, went shopping...you get the picture. Then, I started looking into this MLM thing. "This could be big", I kept hearing in the back of my mind. What if I "worked" a little harder. What were the possibilities? Hmmm? My results (physically and financially) were selling the products and opportunity for me. So, I began to "work" it a little more and saw my checks increase...enough to pay the mortgage.
I've now embraced that I am in an MLM and see what possibilities are ahead of me. It is what you make it. If you are greedy, then you will come off like a cheesy, slick salesman and people will talk about you behind your back while avoiding you at every turn. But, if you legitimately want to help people, then people will see your authenticity and want to come on board. Not everyone, mind you, because we all have that bad MLM experience in our minds so we are all a little leery. However, when you find the right MLM for you, you will be successful because this business model works.
I'm excited about helping other moms find the same benefits that I have found. I'm excited to help them stay home with their kids and still make money. I'm excited to see them get healthy so they can be better moms. I'm excited to see them have balance in their lives. I'm excited to see them flourish!

My 15 seconds of fame...

2009-02-21T08:55:00.001-06:00

Sheryl Crow Does P90X

2009-02-10T14:45:00.004-06:00

Buy it by clicking here.
It works! Just look at Sheryl's results and mine! :)

Will's 9th Birthday!!!

2009-01-12T16:46:00.001-06:00

I can't believe my boy is 9! We had a packed day! 2 basketball games and a cousin sleepover...not to mention breakfast at Golden Corral (I was a good sport).
Here are a few pics...

Find something that's right for you...

2008-12-28T18:53:00.004-06:00

It's that time again! New Year's Resolutions! Why not do something that has proven success and is designed to help you change your health forever!

ChaLEAN Extreme

2008-12-28T18:52:00.000-06:00

We're having a Launch Party to tell people more about this...

Working The Crowd

2008-12-03T11:20:00.002-06:00

Alright, I have to post about this. Too funny! Last night, Jake and I went to the Highland Village Tree Lighting. It was very crowded. We started walking around and Jake wanted to find his friends. He found one friend and then wanted to find more. It was like he was "Working the crowd". So cute! He found 5 friends and was so proud. Here are some pics of my social butterfly. Wonder where he got that?

It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas...

2008-12-01T18:27:00.010-06:00

I'm not kidding. The natural light actually shone on baby Jesus like this. So cool!

I liked this ornament...

So, I had to post some pictures of decorating yesterday.
These art pieces are made by our family. Each year we make a new one. These are years 2003-2006.

We had a dinner last night for the adult leaders of the high school small group that meets at our house every Sunday night. Like the candles on the table? Jeffrey got them from his work. In college, we used to buy these from the "Ghetto" HEB.

Cookies! We had fun with the neighbors making cookies today! It was a great way to start off the season! (notice this year's art work that is in progress)

I'll post more pictures soon!

To Copy Corrie...

2008-11-25T14:28:00.000-06:00

"This was the opening video for our Student Fall Retreat called "You've Got Talent." Everyone is asking what inspired this. Here is goes... 1) We needed a great opening video that caught everyone off guard, and set the the tone for the weekend. 2) With this idea in mind, we thought we could use this video as a great object lesson about media choices (kinda creepy hearing your grandparents sing some of this), and 3) this has been a GREAT transgenerational culture experiment. It has totally bridged a gap with our Senior adults and our students. Hope you enjoy!"
Not sure what church but OH MY!

Meet Frosty

2008-11-23T18:27:00.005-06:00

Well, as you may remember, Eli is no longer with us. After 8 months of not having a dog, we finally decided to take the plunge into dog ownership 1 more time. This time, we decided to go the "Rescue" route.
Because of our allergies, we had to get a hypoallergenic dog. That made the choices slimmer. So, after looking on Petfinder, we found the "Perfect" dog...FROSTY!
We called the Rescue, filled out an Application, they called us with an "interview", and then we had a "Meet and Greet". Seriously! It is a DOG!

(Ummm...he doesn't like his picture taken. I'm not kidding! He gets real scared when I take out the camera and turns his head! I gave up trying to get a good picture.)
Frosty is a 2 years old, white Schnauzer. He is house trained, neutered, doesn't bark, and super sweet...almost too sweet. (Be prepared to be kissed, though...yuck!)
We have had a great transition! I had no clue that having a dog could be so nice! This is why people get dogs! I know...we are crazy!

Has It Been A Month Already?

2008-11-22T14:10:00.005-06:00

I can't believe I haven't blogged in a month! Crazy!
We had Field Day/Jog-a-thon, Halloween, Jeffrey's Birthday, Melissa in town and hanging with Beachbody Coaches, Jake Dresses as a Teacher, We got a new DOG (Frosty), Thanksgiving Feast at school, Will's Thanksgiving performance, end of soccer and football...whew!
I'm going to post in pictures since there is so much I've missed...

October Is Birthday Month

2008-10-23T15:52:00.004-05:00

Yes, I like to celebrate the whole month as my birthday...
Here is a pic of a fun lunch with my friends today at Patrizzio's. We had a blast and they gave me sweet gifts! I am blessed with great friends!

Big D and Insecurity

2008-10-23T15:39:00.002-05:00

It happened to me again! I left my house thinking I looked so cute and stylish. I get to Houston's Restaurant to meet my friends (the one on Northwest Hwy and Preston in REAL Dallas), and immediately feel like a frumpy, suburban mom. I might have well had on "Mom Jeans"...seriously! This happened to me several years back when I met them at Highland Park Village. I felt like I was in LA and at any moment I would run into my favorite A List Star!
It is another world down there. Here is suburbia, I am always thinking how overly blessed we are and feel guilty for all we have. Yesterday, I felt POOR. What? I know! Can you say "SIN"? It brought back a lot of insecurities I had from my growing up.
My dad was a minister and my mom was a teacher. We weren't rich and we lived in a townhouse...a very nice one. My parents always provided over and beyond our needs and wants. However, my friends were daughters of doctors, lawyers, etc. So, there was no comparison. My parents always managed for me to have a new outfit for special occasions but I knew what a sacrifice it was for them. I always felt a little different.
Fast forward 20 years, those feelings came up again. Weird! Obviously, I have some sin in my life. Jealousy? Envy? What is it?
I really prayed for forgiveness yesterday. I want to be content in my surroundings and who I am in Christ.
I love it in Dallas...I love the shopping, the restaurants, and the fast paced life. But, for some reason, God has me in suburbia. I kind of was sad about it but realized that GOD knew what I needed. He knew I could not have handled "Dallas" and it would have been a distraction for me from Him...not that suburbia doesn't have enough distractions of it's own.
At 35, I thought I had dealt with this sin in my life. Ugh! Isn't it funny how it likes to rear it's ugly head again?

H-Town B-day Extravaganza

2008-10-14T15:49:00.007-05:00

Yes, I am now 35 years old. How is it that I am 35 but feel 25? Weird!
Anyway, my birthday started on Thursday night with a "surprise" birthday dinner with my boys. They were so stinkin' cute! They pretended that we were going to Pei Wei, changed clothes, and "tricked" me...they actually took me to Houston's...my all time favorite restaurant.
Here are some pictures of their Birthday Surprise Dinner:

On Friday, after breakfast with "my man" at Corner Bakery, I headed to H-town. Gosh...I HATE that drive! Anyway, I met my brother at Cafe Express and he surprised me with Cupcakes from CRAVE...oh, yum!
(Notice...this was NOT a TEAM BEACHBODY weekend)
After lunch, we walked around the mall until I met my mom at the Hotel Derek.

We checked in, visited and then headed to Lupe Tortillas. We met John Mark, Laura, and dad at Empire Cafe that night for coffee. I am sad they are moving! :(
On Saturday, we met Laura and her mom, Kay, at Nordstrom's Spa for Pedicures. Don't our toes look cute.

After our pedicures, we went to lunch at the Nordstom Cafe...so yummy...and then we shopped. That night, we went to see Dutchess and ate at Guadalajara.
On Sunday, I worked out (see...I at least did something productive) and then we went to an amazing spa called Fiori! I have absolutely never done something so nice in my life! Crazy! It was so relaxing...we had a blast. After that, we had lunch at Beck's Prime. Yes...I did fit in almost all of my favorite eating spots this weekend.
That night, we went to see a movie with dad (Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist...not that good) and then hung out at their house. I returned to Big D yesterday.
What a perfect birthday! Thank you for making it so special!!!

Listen to This...

2008-10-13T16:36:00.005-05:00

Before you judge...make sure YOU know your facts. We could all look this dumb...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCipmnYCKB0

Jake Might Have Hurt His Hand

2008-10-07T15:31:00.003-05:00

The verdict is still out. The X-rays were negative but fractures sometimes don't show up for days later. Personally, I think Jake wanted to make his brother feel REALLY bad for tripping him. Will still claims he accidentally tripped him while he was tripping...Jeffrey disagrees.
Here are the pictures from today:

Weekend in Review...

2008-10-05T19:05:00.003-05:00

We had a jam packed weekend this weekend (which seems to be the theme when the boys are in sports).
It started on Thursday, Papa came in town to see Will play soccer. Will did an amazing job...he had FIRE in his eyes and was out to win (this is a new thing).
On Friday morning, Papa and I had breakfast together...such a sweet time with him. One of the best ever!
After that, I went to bible study. It was one of those awesome times when everyone cries...I love those (it's a girl thing). After that, I went to the Apple Store to get my birthday present from my mom and dad...a new iPhone! Yippee! The electric shock from the $9.99 Go Phone was a little too much!
Following the apple store, I went to El Rancho (Hispanic Grocery Store) to get Fajita meat and a store that just sells Tortillas...oh, yum!
That night, our friends, The Wiselys came over. I had never met them but Jeffrey was college roommates with John. Sweet Family! They live overseas in China. I can't imagine living in China!

When they left, our neighbors came outside to hang out in the driveway (it was 10:00pm and the kids were asleep). We hung at until after 1pm. We have fun neighbors! We even "Forked" the neighbors invited who didn't come out...hee hee! I have pictures but promised not to post them. :)
Saturday was football (which Jake pulled 3 flags...go Jake), soccer (Will scored a goal!), and Kids' Village singing for me.
Today was more Kids' Village singing, a long nap, more Kids' Village singing, and football. The High School kids aren't over tonight...it is REAL quiet.
It was a nice weekend...
Next weekend is BIRTHDAY WEEKEND!!!

Poor Vultures...and other critters...

2008-10-04T12:43:00.020-05:00

Well, the time has finally come. They bulldozed the trees in the back of our house. We tried to fight but it didn't work. :(
We are so so sad...
Where are the vultures going to live?
Here are some pictures:
Before-

After-

Assessing Damage-

Back of House-

Jeffrey Looking for His Lost Saw-

Tree Where Vultures Had A Nest-

90 Day Challenge Starts Tomorrow....

2008-09-28T13:39:00.006-05:00

[Glitterfy.com - *Glitter Photos*]
Alright, you have less than 24 hours to make a PLAN for the next 90 day of your life!
Let me tell you about my week...
This week, my "crackberry" was either lost or stolen (the verdict is still out). My "life" was in that little thing! Calendar, contacts, etc. I have been completely LOST without it (I know...I have issues...I am working on them). I didn't have a PLAN. My eating was worse, my workouts weren't as consistent, I felt gloomy, my times in the bible were less, etc. Why was that? It was because I didn't have a PLAN. Without a PLAN, I tend to "fall off the wagon". I need that organization to keep me on track.
I am NOT an organized person...I am very disorganized in fact (look in my closets). But, I have felt so much better since I have gotten a calendar and planned my life (workouts included).
So, what is your PLAN going to be for the next 90 Days?
Here is mine:
I was thinking of starting P90X again. However, it is very time intensive. With the holidays coming up, I didn't want to set myself up for failure. That is why I decided to do the 10 Minute Trainer Accelerated Results for the next 4 weeks. At that point, I will re-evaluate my schedule. I may add in some P90X routines in with my 10 Minute Trainer as I see fit.

Here is where you can find others who are doing the same:
Hot For The Holidays
Maybe 90 Days is too overwhelming for you...start smaller! Start with 30 days. For me, that is much easier to grasp. At the end of the 30 days, I will then start my next challenge or PLAN.
What is YOUR PLAN?

Hair...Am I having a Mid-Life Crisis?

2008-09-24T18:59:00.011-05:00

Ok...I need to post pictures of me over the past year...What is up with my hair...
Why haven't you worried about me? Or have you in secret been worrying about me?

September 2007

October 2007

December 2007

March 2008

April 2008

June 2008

August 2008

This morning

Comfort Food Time is Coming...

2008-09-17T13:39:00.002-05:00

With the cold weather we've been having (which is odd for September), I am reminded of what is ahead...THE HOLIDAYS!! I don't know about you but I typically gain around 5 pounds from October-January. Last year, I was mindful of that and really worked hard at setting in place a "goal" to not gain that weight and to stay healthy!
So, I am going to come up with a 90 day schedule/program starting on October 1st. Do you want to join me?

Restoration

2008-09-16T08:38:00.002-05:00

Yes, this is the third Post with the letter "R" in it. Ha ha!
Anyway, I thought you might enjoy this, too!
This is a song my sweet mother-in-law sent me! How appropriate!

Revelation

2008-09-16T08:36:00.002-05:00

Check out this song my high school friends (from Marcus) and I love...
(Ignore the hand raising if it makes you uncomfortable)

Red House

2008-09-15T13:32:00.007-05:00

Our house is called the "Red House". It is the home of the Freshmen and Sophomore kids from Marcus High School that go to The Village. Last year, we had about 10 people here total. This year, we think there are over 40 that are going to come each week! Crazy! Last night was our kick off and we celebrated Troy's birthday! (there were actually other pictures taken but the kids didn't like having their pictures taken. Oh, to be a freshman again! Ha ha!)

Water Balloons

2008-09-15T13:24:00.008-05:00

Water Balloons have been a big hit at our house. The bigger the better...

Beachbody Dallas Event

2008-09-15T08:43:00.002-05:00

Oh, my goodness! What fun we had this weekend!!!
With over 150 there, how could it not be fun?
Everyone braved the crazy weather and hurricane to make it! Here are some pics of OUR "team". Don't we look cute in our shirts?
We are now motivated to help others get healthy! Want to join us?

Life with Boys...

2008-08-28T14:35:00.001-05:00

What a difference Beachbody Makes...

2008-08-27T16:08:00.003-05:00

March 2004

March 2008

First Day of School

2008-08-25T20:30:00.002-05:00

I can't believe my boys are in 1st Grade and 3rd Grade! Crazy!!!
They woke up at 6am this morning...on their own. They were ready to leave the house by 7am. We were the first ones in the parking lot...I'm not kidding! They were super excited! They are exhausted tonight, though! Long day!

"I don't have TIME to exercise!"

2008-08-21T19:47:00.002-05:00

Yep! We've all said it! Now I found something that will fit in ANYONE'S schedule...

To ORDER...
Go to www.FunFitMom.com
Click on "Shop for Products"

Please ask me if you have any questions! I've seen great results already!

The Wake

2008-08-18T08:56:00.003-05:00

(For those of you in the "blogging world", you know how therapeutic writing becomes. It starts out just to post pictures of your family and then it becomes much more. Today, I need some "blogging therapy" so I'm going to write...)
Last night, I was given the opportunity to serve Mama Web's family after they returned from the family viewing. I was asked by 3 of Mama Web's closest friends from college to help and of course I jumped at the opportunity.
I was the first to arrive at the house...everyone had gone. The house was quiet and there were pictures everywhere of Mama Web and her family. Not pictures that people had just put up because she had passed and they wanted to remember her but pictures Mama Web had purposefully placed throughout the years...and there were tons! Did she know how helpful those would be later? I was so grateful for those pictures. First, I was grateful because she looked so beautiful. Her last days, her body didn't look the same and I was so happy to see her how I wanted to remember her and how I want her children to remember her. Second, I was grateful for the kids. They are constant reminders of her presence with them. A reminder that she loved them dearly. A reminder of how she looked when she was healthy. She has no more pain now and is more beautiful than ever. I grinned with gladness.
So, the family returned from the viewing and we served them dinner. We tried to stay out of their way but they were gracious and visited with us.
Papa Web gathered everyone around to tell them good news...Chase had made the select baseball team! We all wept! God is good! He knew that sweet little boy needed that. His mama would have been so proud!
They wanted us to watch the DVD of her life and it was precious...her arms constantly squeezing the others in the picture. The music they picked out was perfect, too! Songs of praise! Songs of God's grace! Songs of God's love...even in the midst of sadness and mourning.
After the DVD, we visited and I got to meet some of the family members Mama Web and I had prayed for over 3 years ago. There had been such restoration. As we made the connection, I looked around to tell Mama Web that I met who we prayed for...then realized she wasn't there.
She would have loved to be there. She would have just got in peoples' faces to ask how they were and listened contently on every word. She would have made everyone there feel like the most important person.
As I drove away, I wondered why we don't get together like that more often. Why does it take a Wedding or a Funeral to bring us together?
Lots of things to ponder today.
It is raining and I am sad.

Amy's Wedding and other fun...

2008-08-15T16:08:00.004-05:00

My "big sis", Amy, got married last weekend. Here are some pictures of the fun.

My Sweet Friend...

2008-08-15T15:06:00.003-05:00

Is no longer in pain...
Please read what Mama Web's sweet husband wrote after her passing. Please pray for her family.

I wanted to say thank you so much for the many prayers and kind words spoken on behalf on my sweet bride. One of the prayers that Stephanie and I had together is that Jesus would take us quickly and without pain. This morning at 3:30am I awoke again to help Stephanie and when she feel back asleep I asked our Lord to take her and comfort her and keep her from any more pain, wow, how he works. I loved Stephanie so much and will miss her deeply, but I understand that his will is always perfect. Psalm 18:30 states that As for God, his way is perfect; I will continue to remind myself of that every time I think of her. Love you Stephanie
Funeral Plans
Monday Aug. 18 @ 3pm (First Baptist Church Coppell) 590 S. Denton Tap Rd. Coppell, TX 75019 972-462-1643
Wednesday Aug. 20 @ 1pm (First United Methodist Church Westchase) 10570 WestPark, Houston, TX 77042 713-458-4700 or 800-652-2999
Please if you plan on sending flowers think about sending a donation to braintumor.org, this is the National Brain Tumor Foundation website.

Summer's Passage

2008-08-04T17:29:00.003-05:00

Here is this summer's passage:
The Lord hears his people when they call to him for help.
He rescues them from all their troubles.

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted;
he rescues those whose spirits are crushed.

The righteous person faces many troubles,
but the Lord comes to the rescue each time.
Psalm 34:17-19

Uncle Marty's Fall, The Raft Trip, Mama Web's battle with cancer, Unsure job expectancy, Grandmother's Hip Replacement, etc.

God is with us...

Thank goodness! How else would we survive?

And Another One...

2008-08-01T15:59:00.002-05:00

I created another website...
www.fitfunmom.com

I've learned more this week about computers than I did in any course in College!
Whew!

I hope you will join me in trying to be a Fun, Fit Mom!

I Can't Believe I Created A Website...

2008-07-28T17:08:00.003-05:00

Check this out...
http://www.familyfitclub.net
family fit club

Cutest Things Ever!!!

2008-07-27T15:20:00.002-05:00

Barbados!!!

2008-07-26T15:48:00.002-05:00

Here is a slide show of our 10th Anniversary Trip...our best trip yet!!!

Summer Reading?

2008-07-17T18:49:00.001-05:00

Anyone have any suggestions about a good, somewhat light book to read? I read the Shack and loved it. If I don't have any suggestions, I might read it again. I like Christian Fiction but not prairie day books and no mystery...Help!

I am published!!!

2008-07-17T08:21:00.002-05:00

My comments were published...

From Texas, Coach Stephanie Richardson shares how Shaun T's Fit Kids™ Club is helping her grow her business while helping kids in her area get healthy. "We went to a Vendor Fair for our school district to promote the Shaun T's Fit Kids Club videos as a fundraiser. The reception was tremendous. We've put together a packet to give to the school principals along with a FREE video of Shaun T's Fit Kids Club for the Physical Education teacher to play during class. Texas just passed a new fitness initiative in the schools so this couldn't have come at a better time! The kids LOVE the DVD, too! We are hoping to have a 'Fit Kids Month' where each campus participates. The children will commit to exercising 3 to 4 times a week and make healthy food choices. Those who stick with it will be entered into a drawing. Along with this contest, we are going to have other contests for parents and teachers. We are anxious to start in the fall in several of the schools in our district and neighboring districts. Wouldn't it be great to replace Cookie Dough Sales with Fitness Products?

I'm excited to get our kids fit!!!

Last Neighborhood Workout...until the Fall?

2008-07-15T13:28:00.007-05:00

We completed our neighborhood workout today. Can you believe it has been 12 weeks? Crazy! Our attendance dropped because of summer but we tried to keep it going. Our biggest group was 7.
Here are some pictures of our last workout. Thanks to all my neighborhood workout buddies! Hope we can start back up in the Fall when the kids are back in school!

Our Week In Review

2008-07-06T19:51:00.008-05:00

It's summer, obviously, so I wanted you to see a glimpse into how we occupy our time...
Monday:
*Breakfast at Chick fil a (don't judge...I need a CFA biscuit at least once a week)
*Grocery Store Shopping (not fun with the kids...I end up buying way too much junk)
*Christa came over to "workout" but we end up talking for 2 1/2 hours instead
*Go to doctor Appointment (which had to be rescheduled when I got there due to a baby delivery)
*Christa comes back over to workout
*Go to Christa's in-law's pool (our community pool was shut down due to poo in the pool...no lie!)
*Christa and Taylor join us for dinner
Tuesday:
*Skip neighborhood workout to go get Weber kids
*Take all the kids to Coppell pool...but it isn't open for another hour so we play on playground until it opens
*I go down the slide about a million times, play sharks and minnows, etc.
*Lunch at Chick Fil A (I had a salad...seriously!)

(don't they look silly?)
*Dinner with "the girls" (much needed) at La Ha
Wednesday:
*Jake makes this sign:

(You have to read this...he misses his friends and just wants to be social!)
*Go to the doctor again...

(Waiting patiently while playing DS in waiting room)
*I feel sorry for Jake so we invite friends to go see "Nim's Island" with us at the $1 movie
*Friends come over to play and swim
*Workout after dinner
Thursday:
*Both boys get friends to come over...who arrive at 8:30am! (yes, I had to wake up early on this day...hee hee!)
*Go to the pool...again!
*Kids still play with their friends while I do Yoga
*Kids spend the night with Mimi & Pops with cousins
*Jeffrey & I go on a DATE to see Hancock and to the new Blue Goose that just opened...heavenly date night!
Friday:
*Non eventful 4th...don't even have pictures...sorry! I did wear a red and white shirt, though! And Jake did eat 4 hot dogs!
So, that is a week in review at the Richardson's house.

2 weeks from Today...

2008-07-06T19:40:00.002-05:00

I will be on my 10th Anniversary trip and will have completed my first round of P90X! Yippee!!!
I bought a new camera to take with me. I'm hoping it is good. I switched from my Olympus (second one I've had) to the Canon Powershot SD750. Any comments?
I can't believe I've almost finished P90X! Since I started, I have 6 friends who have started! P90X is all over the place! Have you heard about it yet? Ready for the challenge? Need a new boost to your body?

PRAY!

2008-06-27T09:58:00.003-05:00

Please Pray for Mama Web's family. Please pray for the kids, especially.
"Cast all your anxiety (worry, fear) on Him because He cares for you!" 1 Peter 5:7
Thanks for praying!

Blonde Hair, Black Bears, and Raging Rapids

2008-06-21T12:13:00.005-05:00

(Sorry this is long but after reading, you'll understand why...)
Well, we just returned from a week in Colorado. If you are wondering why our hair is an orange/yellow tint...that is because we all dyed it in our hotel room in Dalhart, Texas last Saturday. We call it "Vacation Hair". Pretty funny, huh?
We got a great deal for a condo in Keystone, Colorado so we went (although the kids wanted to go to the beach). It was beautiful and the temperature was a great treat coming from the heat of Texas.
We hiked, biked, the boys swam (yes, it was a heated pool), played games, watched movies, shopped a little, ate ice cream, and relaxed. The boys complained most of the time because we made them drink so much water. They were then paranoid they would get altitude sickness and asked why we had to go somewhere so high up.
We spotted 3 bears! One was "road kill", one was while Jeffrey was on a walk, and one was when all three were on a bike ride! Crazy! The only other time I'd seen a bear was in the "Bear Pit" at Baylor but I think those were Brown Bears. Sic 'em!
On our last day, we met John Mark and Laura for a raft trip (they work for a rafting company during the summer in Colorado). Laura took the day off and John Mark was our guide. There were 3 rafts with our group. They donned us with wet suits, life jackets, and helmets. After "safety instructions", we headed into the choppy waters. The river was higher than normal because the snow was late in melting. We set out on our journey on Eagle River and were having a great time. Then, came the "big rapid". They call it "Dead Cow" or something because literally a cow died there and rocks formed around it creating a HUGE rapid. As we went toward the rapid, our boat dipped down and then up the wave. As we reached the crest, the other couple on the boat leaned to the right, falling on top of Jeffrey and their daughter, tipping over the WHOLE raft.
All I remember was falling into the water and feeling like my life was about to drastically change at that very second. I thought that either myself or a family member might not make it. As soon as I came up from the water, I looked over my shoulder and saw Jake wimpering. I pushed him toward the raft (which John Mark was already back on) and John Mark got him on the raft. Because the water rushing, I was unable to catch the boat and went floating past at a rapid pace. John Mark and Laura (who was back on the raft), rushed to get me but my body was moving even fast than the raft could catch up. I was shifting toward the right and John Mark wanted to me to go left. He kept yelling, "No, Stephanie! Go to the left." The current was so strong. There was a strainer to the right and he didn't want me to get stuck in it. Finally, they got close enough and I tried to swim toward them. The Windbreaker/Water Guard Jacket I had on felt like a garbage bag. I tried to swim the best I could. John Mark pulled me in the boat and I was safe.
I went to Jake and held him tight. As we looked back, we could see tons of yellow helmets bobbing in the water. Another raft had flipped! I had no clue where Jeffrey and Will were but I had a peace that Jeffrey would take care of them. Because we were on the other side of a median of sorts I could only see the people that were floating down our side. With each person we pulled in our raft, I would look to see if they were Jeffrey or Will. Finally, Jeffrey and Will came around the bottom corner from the other side with their raft. I yelled to Jeffrey, "Do you have Will?" He said, "Yes!" Their boat kept floating down the river and we didn't see them for about 45 more minutes...not knowing if they made it down the river without flipping again. Our boat pulled to the side and we got out. The bus picked us up. Our group was in shock, crying, panicing, and all the emotions you could imagine. Still, no sign of Jeffrey and Will until about 45 minutes later.
Once we finally saw them, we all were tearfully happy to see one another. We were so grateful that no one was hurt and we were all there. I then found out that Jeffrey and Will were picked up on separate boats. The boat that Will got on was the other boat that flipped. Will was on two boats that flipped! Jeffrey watched it and said Will was in the water for a long time until they could get him. Jeffrey said he was so calm and did exactly what they told him to do. He said once they got him, his lips were blue and he couldn't move his hands. Finally, they were able to pull to the side so he could get warm. It was a miracle! We are blessed.
So, that is why we don't have any "after" pictures of the raft trip. We didn't feel like taking any "after" pictures.
We are, however, still recovering from the mind games the "evil one" likes to play in our minds. The scene has gone over and over in our minds. We finally have a peace and are greatful for our family...although it still makes our stomach turn. We are greatful for John Mark and Laura...we would not be OK if it weren't for them. They are amazing at what they do. I felt so safe because of them. Our family is closer for sure.
Don't ask Jake about it, though. His tummy still gets upset when we talk about it.
Thank you, Lord, for your protection!

Colorado 2008

2008-06-21T12:09:00.000-05:00

"My how they have grown..."

2008-06-05T20:59:00.005-05:00

First Day of School...

Last Day of School...

To make you smile...

2008-05-21T22:03:00.000-05:00

Update on Mama Web

2008-05-21T21:49:00.000-05:00

May 21, 2008
Stephanie and I just got back from MD Anderson last night and as usual we were running from the time we got home, Chase had baseball practice and Clare had a playoff softball game. Typical Weber house as many of you know run, run, run!! We had our meeting with Dr. Yung, Steph's latest MRI shows the tumor to be getting bigger. Dr. Yung recommednded changing to anothor chemotherapy regimen to include three oral medications as well as increasing the steriod. The steriod helps with swelling in the brain around the tumor site. Although this was discouraging and scary news, one positive thing is that Steph will no longer have to be on the Avastin (IV treatment). As it is his job to share the "straight medical stuff" with us, he was not optimistic that the new chemo regimen will result in shrinking of the tumor-but hopefully it may stop or slow some of the growth. Steph will start the new chemo regimen next week. Her next visit to MD Anderson will be in early July.
I wanted to say thank you to so many folks that are thinking, calling and praying for Stephanie. I promise you that she is feeling those prayers and even listening to messages but she is not able to respond to everyone right now, please understand and continue to pray.
David
P.S. This message is from our close friend Mary Nell Suell, (sorry Mary Nell for losing the Dr. title "Bevill will get on me later about that").
One thing I have learned through this journey with Steph is that the best gift I can give her is the gift of freedom in my friendship with her-the freedom to receive (a phone call, card in the mail, email...) with a clear message that no reply is needed. Steph loves people so deeply-and it burdens her to feel like she can't keep up with calling people back, replies to emails, and individually loving on the many, many dear friends who are reaching out to her. She is very limited on physical energy and has limited mobility and needs to spend her energy doing her part to work towards healing her body and spending quality time with her family. Here is what I am proposing: When you send a email or text, please do no expect a reply or start with No reply needed, lets do the same with a voicemail, don't worry about a call back. (If there is a need of anything urgent please call David (214-912-2165), he is very good at screening calls thou (just joking, its David typing).
Finally, this scripture keeps coming to my mind: Matt 6:33-34
Seek first His kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
I told Steph today that I would continue to ask God for his complete healing for her. I believe though my faith in Christ that he will heal her completely and restore her, but I confessed that I wanted it on my terms, Steph responded "only on his terms" Steph, thank you for letting your light shine so bright. Love Mary Nell!

Marty

2008-05-21T15:05:00.002-05:00

Once again, I ask for your prayers. Jeffrey's Uncle Marty fell off a ladder onto a fence on Monday somewhere around 1pm. He was found unconscious but breathing. They "care flew" him to Memorial Hermann Hospital in Houston. He has remained unconscious and is currently unresponsive. He has broken 5 vertibrae, has a collapsed lung, and a bruise on his brain. His condition goes up and down. This reminds me of when my dad was sick. Every day was an up and down experience. The Lord was gracious to keep us even emotionally. I pray or the same for Jeffrey's family. I pray that they will have the "peace that passes all understanding". For updates, you can visit here. Marty is the head coach of Bay Area Christian School. Thank you for your prayers!

"Angels"

2008-05-19T09:11:00.004-05:00

I am becoming aware of some things by being a parent in suburbia. The parents (and I MEAN A TON OF THEM) think their children are "angels", unable to possibly be broken. Lie? Not my child! Steal? Not my child! Bully? Not my child! Struggle? Not my child!
It starts at an early age. From preschool, these parents look with a blind eye. Why? I believe it is because that shows as a "failure" on their part. Most of these parents are successful (or previously were before staying home). They could not possibly have a child that is broken. Or, maybe it is because they don't want to be the "bad guy" by disciplining them so it is easier to pretend (or go to their "happy place"...hee hee). As the children grow up, the parents still do not see what is in front of their eyes. The problems get bigger however the parents transpose blame on someone else (always someone else's fault).
Wow! From early on, I realized that my children, like myself, are broken. They are not puppets and how ever hard I tried (and BELIEVE ME...I TRIED), they would show me that I was NOT a ventriloquist. That was the biggest blessing. He taught me humility very early on in my motherhood.
My prayer is that I will not have a "blind eye" when it comes to my children, but God will reveal to me how to guide them, nurture them, and (yes) discipline them. I also pray that I will be transparent when it comes to dealing with my children. I pray that I will share the bad (struggles) along with the good (we so easily want to "brag" about), giving God the glory through it all. Because, if we were honest, we all know we can't parent on our own.

Baby Blue Salad

2008-05-08T07:49:00.003-05:00

Yesterday, I picked up 3 Baby Blue Salads from Magnolia Cafe. That was the request of my sweet friend, Stephanie. I said a prayer that the Lord would give me strength. Actually, that He would take over my body. In my own strength, I am weak. I would fall on the floor in tears upon seeing my sweet friend. I needed God to take over me so that I could be an encouragement to my friend.
So, my sweet friend got out of her car from rehab. Our last meeting, she had driven to meet me for lunch only complaining that her peripheral vision was gone...and that was just 3 months ago. Today, she no longer can drive and her left side has gone weak...that is why she was at rehab. She had a smile on her face to see me and I hugged her. She walked with her cane to the door, slowly...having to concentrate on every step.
She was excited about her Baby Blue Salad so we sat at the table and ate together. I have to say, this was one of the most tender, most humbling lunches I have ever experienced. You know those times when you can feel the presence of God? Those times when He is loving you even though your heart is hurting? Those times when He is teaching you?
We sat and talked. We shared our struggles and our praises. We recounted all that God had done through this brain tumor. The lives touched, the relationships restored, and the precious teaching moments for our children. We also talked about how we have learned to love others when they are sick by not requiring anything of them but just being available when they need it. It wasn't a sappy, "pie in the sky" conversation but a REAL one.
We are praying that God will get ALL the glory and heal my sweet friend. We also know that the ultimate healing is in heaven...where there is no more pain and suffering. Selfishly, we want her here with us, though. We're not finished with her here. I know there will be a time when it is me in Stephanie's shoes (and it is coming). How will choose I live my life while suffering? I pray that I will look like my sweet friend...

I'm Surviving!!!

2008-05-08T07:07:00.003-05:00

P90X has been a blast! Well...it has been fun but challenging! I am surprised I can keep up as much as I can but I also know I will get better as the weeks and months move on. Every day there is a different workout. Cardio, Core, Weight Training, Yoga, and Kenpo (kick boxing) are all part of the program. I like the variety for sure!
Our group that meets every Tuesday is helping me motivated!
So, for the important part (hee hee): I've lost 2 pound in 2 weeks and 1 inch all around my body! That's pretty impressive. I can already see my body changing. I'm excited to see what I look like at the end of the 90 days! Watch this video to find out what it is like...

I'm Scared...

2008-04-20T19:22:00.005-05:00

I start P90X tomorrow! It is an intense workout! Wish me luck!
One good thing is we have a group who are going to workout with me on Tuesdays. I think this accountability will help...
Click on this to find out more:
P90X

School Fundraisers

2008-04-20T18:09:00.005-05:00

My friends and I are now learning about school fundraising! Team Beachbody is now using the Coaching opportunity to help our schools both physically and finanically! What a GREAT idea! You don't have to buy wrapping paper or cookie dough! You can purchase the Shaun T's Fit Kids Club (school gets $8) or any products (through the school's Team Beachbody website) and that school/organization gets 25%! So exciting!
Here are some pictures...

JAKE

2008-04-20T17:33:00.004-05:00

I apologize to all about not posting. I've been a bad mom! I have Jake's birthday to post (Cousins Sleepover/Birthday Party at Peter Piper Pizza), his new tooth lost (pulled by his brother...of course!), and his school field trip. So, I thought I would just do a slideshow to show what has been going on the past couple of months for Jakey Bakey (he doesn't like Snakey anymore).
I can't believe he is 6!!

Rockin' Body

2008-04-03T15:34:00.003-05:00

After spending a weekend with my high school friends (post on that soon), I decided I was better in the old days (or in my MIND I was better than I really was). So I purchased this video:

It was SO much fun BUT I was glad no one was watching me! My groove is gone and I looked like a pathetic soccer mom trying to do a dance! Maybe I'll get better. At least I had fun doing it! Can you lose your dancing abilities with the birth of your children or did you not really have dancing abilities before their birth?

Facebook

2008-04-02T16:40:00.002-05:00

As if I wasn't already wasting enough time on the computer on any given day, I've now joined Facebook. It is wild!

Church of Oprah

2008-04-02T07:59:00.002-05:00

Can I tell you how much I like to watch Oprah's Favorite Things around Christmas time? Such cool things. I get sucked in and think whatever Oprah thinks is cool has got to be cool!
Well, I have stopped thinking Oprah is cool. WATCH this YouTube and see why...

It shows me how we are ALL susceptible to false doctrine. We ALL can be lead astray. We ALL can be lured away from God so easily. So...make sure you READ THE BIBLE. Seriously! DO NOT listen to preachers or speakers without investigating the TRUTH for yourself! I love my pastor and think he is so wise BUT I have to seek truth from the BIBLE on my own. I have to investigate to see if what he is saying goes along with scripture. We get lazy and just listen to what others say. If it sounds right, it has to be right, right? Wrong!
Had Oprah read scripture on her own she would have know that the bible says "God is a jealous God" as her preacher said and understood what her preacher meant. God is not jealous of you but he is jealous of you worshipping other things. He wants You and ALL of you! Sit down with him today and see what HE has to say!!!

Apple Doesn't Fall Far From The Tree

2008-04-01T21:28:00.004-05:00

Notice how he likes to perform like his mom...

His School Performance Last Thursday

(This was the happiest I had ever seen him...watch out American Idol!)

Notice how he is playing football just like his dad did (before the 2 broken legs)...

His First Flag Football Practice

(He scored a long run touchdown at his first game on Saturday)

Breakfast in Bed

2008-04-01T21:22:00.005-05:00

This was the boys' idea on the last day of Spring Break. They had never done it before. Precious...Boys are so sweet to their Moms!

Easter

2008-04-01T21:06:00.007-05:00

Easter this year came by so fast (and so have the days since...so sorry for the delay in a post). We went to church on Saturday night (after repainting kitchen and planting flowers). There was "no room"! We had to leave so we went to a new Mexican restaurant (Fernando's...tasted like Anamia's). The next morning, we decided to go to church with Jeffrey's family in Denton. After church, we went to dinner and the boys got to do an Easter egg hunt with their cousins. They had a blast!That night, our friends Alexy and Natasha from Russia came over. They live in Penza, Russia and work with kids who are exiting the orphanage. They have an amazing ministry.

It was a crazy weekend but a nice one.

I know this is going to sound pious but Christmas and Easter are not a big deal to me. They frustrate me. I celebrate Christ each weekend and don't understand why those two weekends are a big deal. (I hope I don't get struck by lightening...hee hee!) They a

re so muddled with secular things that I have a hard time celebrating their meaning. I wish Christians celebrated on a different weekend from Santa and the Easter Bunny...it would be MUCH better.

Spring Break 2008

2008-03-22T14:40:00.005-05:00

Hello! We are back! I did not have cell service or internet access from Monday until Friday. How did I survive? Quite well, actually! It was nice to get away! Here are some pics...

I'm a Big Dork!!!

2008-03-13T15:38:00.003-05:00

This is a picture with Chalene Johnson, maker of Turbo Jam (the one with the long blonde hair), and my workout buddies Melissa and Kim (also Beachbody Coaches). Can I tell you how much fun I had working out with her? I think I want to become Turbo Kick Ceritified!
Seriously, I really am a big dork! I am addicted to the Beachbody (formerly Million Dollar Body...yeah! they changed the name) Website! There are so many good tips and motivating stories! It is awesome.
If you had told me 1 year ago that I would be involved this much with (and actually enjoy) Beachbody, I would have told you that you were crazy! Never did I think this company would have such an impact on me!

Want to see what I've been reading and watching (they have great shows on the website like Thin Kitchen, Slim Style, BNN, etc.)? Click here and then go to JOIN THE CLUB. It is only $2.99 per week (which is less than a Starbucks' coffee)! They even have a 30 day money back guarantee if you don't like it! What do you have to lose? (Yes, I sound like an infomercial...I've been brainwashed...at least it is a good company to be brainwashed to).

I've wasted enough time now on my booty watching Beachbody today...now I'm off to play tennis with my boys!

Vulture?

2008-03-12T14:54:00.002-05:00

Does anyone know how to get rid of a vulture? They are still here...
(Yes, this is at my back door.)

SoCal

2008-03-10T16:48:00.007-05:00

(Sorry about the song...it played the whole time I was in California...even in my Turbo Jam workout...kind of my theme song for the weekend...)
If you've been to Southern California, you know they call it "SoCal". We just got back around midnight last night from our trip to SoCal. It was amazing!

Have you ever had that kind of out of body experience when you are just amazed that everything just "fell into place"? That is how I felt about my trip. It was like God was working out every detail...perfectly! Wow!

I arrived in Orange County on Thursday morning. I took the rental car van to the rental car place where I was given a black PT Cruiser Convertible! So fun! (I was actually given the wrong car but thought they were just being nice by upgrading me!) I went to the hotel and met all the other Beachbody (new name of Million Dollar Body) Coaches. It was so fun to see in person the faces that you see everyday on the Million Dollar Body website. Ginny (our friend who introduced Jeffrey & me) and her daughter Sarah met me for lunch at The Block at Orange (an outside shopping mall). We ate lunch (at Corner Bakery...ha ha!...haven't been there in a while...hee hee!) and had a great time. She left to pick up her other daughter. Melissa met me at the mall and we shopped for a few more hours. That night, we had our workout with Chalene Johnson (the maker of Turbo Jam). It was so much fun!!! We were on the second row, I think. We got to meet her, her assistant, and her husband. Too cool! She killed us...but it felt so good! I wish I could workout to her live every day! Ginny met me back at the hotel and we went to Downtown Disneyland for dinner. It was packed and we ate at a yummy mexican (the first of 3 Mexican Food meals during my stay). We walked around a little (although the stores were closed by the time we finished dinner) and then went back to the hotel. She stayed with me that night so we could catch up. We went to bed at 12:15am (2:15am Dallas time).

I had to be up at 6:40am to be ready for the morning workout with Tony Horton. Thankfully, he did Yoga (which was PERFECT for my body). Our meetings started at 9am and we were on the 3rd row...perfect seats! It was so amazing! The company REALLY DOES care about people and overcoming obesity...they aren't just saying it! I am SO proud to be a part of a company who really is about people and not making a quick buck! The conference was over at 3pm and I left to go pick up Jeffrey at the airport. Either Google Maps messed up or I missed my exit. I ended up in Industry and my 40 minute drive turned into 2 1/2 hours! Jeffrey ended up taking a taxi to the hotel and I met him there (along with meeting our friends Wes and Shelly). Our hotel was awesome! We stayed at Le Montrose near Sunset Blvd. Wow! We got to see the sunset from the roof (which had a pool and tennis courts). We all got dressed and went to dinner at The Spanish Kitchen. YUMMY! Then, there were paparzzi across the street at a restaurant called STK (which we couldn't get reservations at but went to its sister restaurant instead). We went to see who they were trying to get a picture of. Eva Longoria and Victoria Beckam (Jeffrey's favorite Star!!!). We asked the bouncer if we could go in to the bar...he said yes! We hung out in the bar to see if we found anyone famous. Andy Dick was sitting at the bar. Pretty funny! We didn't see Eva or Victoria because they were in a private room upstairs. We did meet the owners and a drummer for some band I'd never heard of! It was so fun!

Saturday, we woke up, got some Starbucks and drove the Santa Monica 3rd Street Promenade. We shopped, looked at the farmer's market, and then drove to Lula's for lunch. After lunch, we went to Ventura Beach and Muscle Beach. Interesting people! I think I'll take my boys there when they are in Junior High to show them what drugs can do to you! We relaxed that evening and went to dinner at a restaurant called One. Funny story...Wes called the restaurant to get a later seating. They said they only had 7:15pm and really acted like they were squeezing us in. We got there and there were only 3 tables that had people at them! So funny! The food was tapas and you share. The flavors! Wow! We had a great time! Il Sole was next door and the paparazzi was there, too. We missed the famous person who was there. We went to the Viper Room but it was only 9:30pm so we went back to our hotel to hang out on the roof. I was exhausted so we only stayed for about 30 minutes.

On Sunday, we drove around to see Hollywood, Studio City, Universal City, Glendale, and Pasadena. We ate lunch at In and Out Burger which was yummy. We then took Wes and Shelly to the airport. Jeffrey & I drove around until it was time to drop off the car and get to the airport.

What a cool city! We had such a great time! I can't wait until next year's Coach Summit!

I don't have time to blog, but....

2008-03-05T16:02:00.008-06:00

Seriously, I have so much I need to be doing right now but I had to post two things real quick...(and of course I'm having technical difficulties...sorry for the pictures being in the wrong order)

First of all, on Monday night it SNOWED. In March! In Texas! So weird!

Here are the boys playing in the snow that morning (it is 6:30am). So fun!

It was beautiful as it fell Monday night. I felt like it was a little gift from God. It was so peaceful and amazing!

Secondly, "THEYYYRREEE BACK!". The vultures are back! This time, they want IN the house! I'm not kidding! They have been perched on our second story window for two days now. Scary! They are pecking to come in. I showered today and they were on that window perch! Do I smell like death? Is that what they are trying to tell me? Freaky! Here is a picture of that! We're all a little nervous about it! I called Animal Control. They came out but didn't do anything. I'm hoping they (yes, there are two) leave! Oh, my...as I type this, one of them is now perched on the fence outside the window of my office! Can you say, "Scary?"????

I'm off to finish packing. I leave in the morning to go to Anaheim! Can't wait! I'll post a lot when I get back!

Tears

2008-02-27T21:53:00.004-06:00

After 14 1/2 months, we are going to have to say "goodbye" to Eli Jackson, our dog. We've fought to the bitter end but today proved...it is time for him to find another home. I've written about Eli some but then the stories are so crazy it was almost too painful, almost commonplace to write about.

Today he got out...again. I had only let him in the backyard for 5 minutes. He dug out of our backyard and we drove to find him...only to find he had entered our neighbor's yard. She was NOT happy about it! He had dug in her trash and destroyed stuff...plus she had just vaccummed. I took him from her backyard and was furious! How could he? (He had done the same thing 2 weeks ago and also peed IN the other neighbor's house). I could go on and on with similar stories of Eli's antics. Anyway, I called Jeffrey and started bawling! I knew that was Eli's last time to torment our neighbors. Jeffrey told me to call the Wheaton Rescue. I've cried since 4pm today...it is now 10pm. I didn't even like the dog...so I thought!

So, I now have to pick up another Wheaton on Friday then take both dogs to a "transporter" who will take both dogs on Saturday. I think this will be an easier transition for the kids.

Oh, the kids! We told them tonight in a "family meeting" that we are going to have to get rid of Eli. We were all crying (well, except for Jeffrey). It was the saddest day with my kids I have ever had. We want what is best for everyone. My kids love that dog (even though he still bites/mouthes them and he has attacked all of their friends...in a loving way that scares the crud out of them!).

I don't know the last time I have shed so many tears! I am mostly sad for my boys who will no longer have a dog to call their own. I am sad to see that puppy go. He's been with us for a long time and we've endured a lot together.

Pray that the tears subside for our family...

It is going to be a rough couple of days ahead.

Valentine's Day...We Finally Got It Right!!

2008-02-20T15:39:00.004-06:00

Sorry...this is long:

After 10 Valentine's Days together...we finally got it right! There were no tears and no unmet expectations (at least on my part and I'm hoping not on Jeffrey's part, too).

We actually spent Valentine's Day with my dad (wait...it gets better...I promise). He came in town that night around 8:30pm. Now, I'll back up to the beginning of the morning...

My boys were so excited to wake up. I think they were awake by 6am. They couldn't wait to give me their present! They bought me a COACH PURSE. I am not kidding! (I haven't worn it yet because I still feel guilty and may take it back still because of the guilt) Can you say "Extravagant"? I made the boys mini pink/red (boys don't like pink so you have to say "red") blueberry muffins for breakfast. They were off to school. Melissa was still here so we went to Chick Fil A for Chicken Biscuits (we figured out we'd been eating them together for 8 years...crazy!). I took her to the new Walmart, had a brief meeting with my accountant, and then worked out to "Fat Blaster" (I love that video). Melissa left and I was sad (although I'll see her in a few weeks). A quick visit to the hospital where two of my neighbors were (one for a new baby and the other for complications from a motorcycle wreck...both are home now and doing great!) and then to the school Valentine's Day party. I had to go back and forth between the two classes. Lots of sugar was consumed by my two monkeys.

That night, we went to dinner at Snuffer's (romanic?), sold Jeffrey's car (yippee), and then met my dad at the house.

What? That doesn't sound romantic?

Well, that really didn't count as "Valentine's Day" because we celebrated for the next THREE DAYS!

Friday around 2pm we left for Houston (just me and Jeffrey). We arrived at our hotel around 8pm. We stayed at the Hotel Zaza in the Houston Museum District! Can you say G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S? There was even a tour bus parked outside (rumor was it was Ashley Simpson). We quickly changed clothes (because tennis shoes were not allowed) and headed to the Monarch where we got some appetizers and drinks. Yummy food and amazing ambiance. That hotel is probably the coolest I have ever been to! Very Eclectic!

It was an older crowd but we loved people watching. Our waitress was drunk. Yes, you read that right. She was on something or drunk. Every time she left us...we giggled. She eventually fell and we never saw her again. We also enjoyed watching the odd trio next to us (two college age girls with what looked like their professor...gross!).

On Saturday, we went for a walk around the hotel to Hermann Park. It was pretty (although the weather had much to be desired). We had breakfast together at Empire Cafe in Montrose. We shopped for some honeymoon "goodies" for my friend Melissa M. and had a super time just hanging out. We ate lunch at our favorite mexican place called Guadalajara. Yummy! I battled a migraine all day which was crappy! I took a nap and then got dressed for the wedding (but got side tracked by the movie Jeffrey was watching called Into The Wild). I ran into the bridesmaid room 5 minutes b/f the wedding (Jeffrey was steaming that I did that but I had to give her the honeymoon "goodies" I got for her!). She was happy to see me and her sister said it was perfect that I came back there!!! Proved Jeffrey wrong (although this is not correct ettiquette to do to someone right before their wedding starts but she does call me her "BFF" so it is appropriate).

We had a great time at the wedding and went back to the hotel a little early...we had woken up at 6am b/c Jeffrey's internal clock woke him up. We are old! Ugh! We had planned to go dancing with Amy & Stephen...sorry guys! We are lame!

On Sunday, we woke up a little later and then left to come home. I was so sad to come home. I needed more time away with my man.

I love those times with him to recharge! I didn't have to compete with his job, our kids, or chores. It was just us! I'm excited about going to LA with him (and our friends Wes & Shelly) in a few weeks!

So, it was the perfect Valentine's Day! After 10 tries...we finally got it right!

Two Melissas & Some Nasty Colored Hair

2008-02-20T09:24:00.005-06:00

Ok...as you know, I have been trying to go blonde since September. To my disappointment (to my ego and pocketbook), it keeps having tinges of orange. Why???

Last week I got to spend time with two of my dear friends who are both named Melissa. Pretty funny, huh?

Melissa H. came to visit me last week. We had a great time. She is moving back and I am so happy. She got to meet some of my friends, too! It was surreal to have them all meet! We ate LOTS but worked out too (went on a beautiful hike around the lake...watching out for bobcats and snakes). We also looked at houses (which of course gives me the moving bug) and did a little business. Here is a picture before we met some of our fellow coaches at Patrizzio's.

Melissa M. got married last weekend in Houston. Oh, my! What a stinkin' gorgeous bride!

Melissa M. is a 8 year younger version of myself (although she is much brighter and prettier). We always have fun together and I am so excited for her new life with her new man. Doesn't she look beautiful?

As you look at the pictures, you will notice my hair. Why is it so bad? I thought I would keep it blonde until we got back from LA in March but I'm not sure I can make it to then.

Give me your honest opinion....back to brown or keep it blonde/whatever color it is?

I'll be back to give more scoop on my weekend away sans kids with my man at Hotel Zaza! Wow!

Calling ALL People

2008-02-14T07:22:00.001-06:00

Maybe you haven't talked to God in a while. Maybe you talk to Him all the time. Whatever the case...would you please talk to him on behalf of my sweet friend Stephanie Weber?
Here is the update...

Wednesday, February 13, 2008
We traveled to Houston Monday afternoon and had a MRI scan in the early evening. David, Dad, Mom, Bud Jan and myself all met with Dr. Jung to review the scan. To quote his first words, “It looks worrisome.” The flare ie. Tumor appears to be spreading. Not spreading into drastic new places but what is there is getting bigger. Dr. Jung doesn’t have any new silver bullets to eradicate this or attempt to blow this thing away. He feels that I might be resistant to the Avastin. Dr. Jung is going to dig in the current studies of MD Anderson, we are going to explore what Duke has to offer. We met with Dr. Fink. She confirmed the tumor cell activity sting that it is “creeping” into new areas saying that the Avastin is working there isn’t a tumor “balling” up but the creeping/spread needs to be stopped. She gave me a prescription for an antibiotic that could possibly work to slow the creep and won’t keep me out of any possible studies. She is going to forward David’s email to Dr. Friedman at Duke today to see if there are other potential options. I didn’t get chemo today as my platelet count is lower than the required minimum for infusion. Surprisingly, this upset me because I don’t want any time for this stuff to tumor up and grow. They took my blood to check again, we are doing the platelet dance for them to come up! The plan is to keep going on chemo as soon as I can.
Yes, I have had been flooded with emotions from all directions. Ya know, conversations with God like keep me here, I want to pour more into my kids and experience more with them, David, family and friends. Oh Lord, please summon your power to destroy this enemy that has been hanging out in my brain.
Isn’t the power of the Spirit cool when David and I opened up God’s Word last night to Isaiah 41:9-11 and these words from God spoke boldly and directly to us, “I took you from the ends of the earth, from its farthest corners I called you. You are my servant’; I have chosen you and have not rejected you. So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” We are humbly asking for wisdom for the doctors to come up with a cocktail and Jesus’ healing power to make this enemy disappear.

Pray for Wellness!

2008-01-31T19:56:00.000-06:00

Is Wellness a word? Not sure. I just wanted you to pray that our family and neighbors become well. We have a lot of illness on our little street. Some things I know about and some things I don't (breast cancer treatment, mono, knee surgery/blod clots, birthing of children...just to name a few) . My heart is burdened for my neighbors...especially this week. Pray for them! It is amazing that so much illness is happening on this street...all at the same time!

Our house has its own "little" illnesses too (can you hear the breathing treatment machines in the background or the sniffling of my nose?). We're hoping to be well by this weekend. Our house is supposed to be a host home for the youth group this weekend. So, be praying for the youth at our house to find "Wellness" (or wholeness or completeness...are those words?), too!

"HE gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak." Isaiah 40:29

"I will refresh the weary and satisfy the faint." Jeremiah 31:25

"Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28

It's Here!!!

2008-01-25T12:01:00.001-06:00

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2008-01-24T08:33:00.001-06:00

9 Food Not to Give Kids

2008-01-24T08:31:00.000-06:00

Ok...I just read an article by Joe Wilkes (a writer for Beachbody/Million Dollar Body) titled "9 Foods Not to Give Kids"

Here is the list:

1. Chicken Nuggets/Tenders

2. Sugary Cereal

3. Lunch Meat & Hot Dogs

4. Juice and Juice-Flavored Drinks

5. French Fries

6. Chips

7. Fruit Leather

8. Pizza

9. Donuts

So, why are 6 of 9 a STAPLE of my children's diet? Yikes! I better get working!

Here are some alternatives:

1. Chicken Nuggets/Tenders: Grill chicken and cut it up, make fun shapes; can bread with cornflake crumbs dipped in egg whites

2. Sugary Cereal: low in sugar and high in fiber cereals; add raisins, fruit, etc. to make it more exciting

3. Lunch Meats/Hot Dogs: Watch Labels! Don't do Lunchables...not good for kids

4. Juice: Water

5. French Fries: Bake them in oven with a little olive oil (or Pam)...my kids like this

6. Chips: make your own healthy trail mix...this is fun for my kids; baked chips are good alternatives, too!

7. Fruit Leather: REAL fruit, freeze grapes

8. Donuts: JUST don't do it!!! (We have "donut day" every Saturday!...what are we going to do?)

9. Pizza: Make your own at home w/whole wheat bread base (english muffin, whole wheat tortilla, etc.) and less cheese (the kids like making their own!)

Wow! I have some work to do in my house! Jake's top food choices are all of the above (and not the healthy alternatives)!!! I think for our family, we are going to have to stop eating out! At home we do pretty well and use the alternatives. It is when we eat out we don't do well! Then, my kids get used to eating "junk" and they cry when I cook because their bodies crave the "junk" they've been eating. The healthy alternative doesn't taste as good to them. I better go to the grocery store!!!

I'd love some healthy, kid friendly meals! Any suggestions?

Fake

2008-01-23T16:38:00.000-06:00

Thank you to all who have responded to my blog! I feel so important.

For an update, I did carry my "fake" Coach bag today and felt much better. It is a purchase my mom gave me two Mother's Days ago. It isn't in great shape but it does the trick. I have Pradas, Burberrys, and Kate Spades that were all purchased on Harwin Street (Houston) or Canal Street (NYC). I don't care if they are in a drawer and haven't been used in a while. They were CHEAP!

Material Girl

2008-01-21T14:46:00.000-06:00

Ok...I have tried to be a "Material Girl" the past few weeks and it hasn't worked. Here are two examples:

1. COACH PURSE- Yes, I want one. My mom bought me a small one for Christmas but told me I could use the money they gave us to "upgrade". So, I went to "upgrade" but the one I picked out was too small. I had to take it back. The bigger one wouldn't work either so I had to choose a new style. The new style was $350! Yikes! I made Jeffrey go to 7 stores (yes, 7) to look at all my options just to come home EMPTY HANDED! I couldn't spend $350 on a purse even though I had the money. What is wrong with me? We've thought about going to the outlet, waiting for sales, and etc but I still can't spend the money.

2. XC90- I almost bought a Volvo XC90 last week. I even drove one home from the dealership. Oh, I looked so cute in it! It was light green (which matches my eyes) and beautiful. Jeffrey said I could buy it but I couldn't do it! It was an expensive car (even though he came down $10K off the sticker) and wasn't the "smartest" financial decision but the main problem was it was too small for all of us! It was like making a square peg fit in a round hole. Darn it! I wanted that car! So, I had to drive it back to the dealership. I prayed that it would be easy and the sales guy was super nice (if you need a Volvo, you have to go to this guy!). I told him it was too small and he said, "It is not the car for you." What? I want the car! I want to be the cute girl in the expensive car! Why wasn't he trying to pressure me into buying it! Ugh!

The lesson God is trying to teach me is clear. He has changed me from the girl I used to be (the name-brand-wearing, fancy-car-driving diva). I'm not saying those things are bad that I wanted but it was clear to me that they are things I don't need to have...at least right now. He also revealed to me the REASON I wanted those things...because "everyone else" has one. Yikes! So, I'll be content in my $14.99-from-TJ Maxx-purse and my Honda-Pilot/Mom-Mobile for now.

8????

2008-01-11T14:07:00.000-06:00

My baby is 8 years old! His birthday was on Thursday and I can not believe how quickly time has gone by! Sure, there was a time when I thought he would never make it to this age and days felt to slowly creep along (as I cried holding his door shut so he would nap at age 2, wondering if they had military school for toddlers) but I couldn't imagine having an 8 year old. I even remember knowing a girl who had kids in Kindergarten and 2nd grade thinking, "Her kids are SO old." And...that is where I am!

On his actual birthday, we had breakfast at Chick-fil-A and lunch was Taco Bell (brought to school). After school, we picked out a cookie cake from Nestle's Tollhouse (and enjoyed some ice cream while deciding). We spent over an hour at Target picking out his presents (thank you family for Target gift cards), and then returned home to unwrap the fun! Dinner was with our neighbors at Pazzo's (because Kylie's birthday is on the same day) to eat yummy chocolate cake (oh, and pizza). I didn't say it was a healthy day!

I think he had a good day.

Here is a little bit about Will age 8:

He is so mature. He is so polite. He is kind. He likes to be on stage (like his mommy) and always raises his hands to answer a question (even if he doesn't know the answer). He loves video games. He likes Pokemon. He likes football (this is a new one...we are very excited). He likes to go on bike rides with the family. He likes to read his bible (I'm not kidding...he really does...AND he GETS what he is reading...I'm blown away). He loves friends and is a people magnet. He loves his brother (he is his BEST friend and vice versa...I pray that is always the case!). He likes school and is very smart (obviously doesn't get this gift from his mom!). He likes soccer and baseball. He likes Webkinz. He doesn't like to sleep in but doesn't like to go to bed at night either (so sad for mom and dad). He is very persistent.

That is Will in a nut shell. I am amazed by him daily!

I am blessed to call him my son.

Neon Signs

2008-01-07T17:21:00.000-06:00

Ok...I've been praying for my friend and her husband who are making a big decision that God will give them a "Neon Sign" to point them in the direction He wants them to go (Oh...and it has been fun to watch those neon signs pop up). Have you ever prayed for that?
A couple years ago, I prayed for a "Neon Sign" about whether or not we should move to Highland Village from Coppell. It was a huge decision even though it was on 10 miles away! It was a new town with new school, church, and friends. God probably gave me many a "Neon Sign" but I kept wondering about the decision anyway! It turns out, this has been THE BEST place for our family. We love it.
So, today I had lunch with a friend of mine, Jenny, who is turning 21 tomorrow. We were talking about another couple friend of ours who might adopt. She asked me if we had thought about adopting. I told her we had but have basically been too lazy to really do anything about it. I told her how every time we were ready to make the next step, something got in the way. She went on and on about how I need a little girl (she is my babysitter so she knows how much I need a little girl).
When I left her, I began to pray. Then I called my friend Sarah who has adopted a son from an agency in Wichita Falls about more information. She didn't answer so I left a message. I hung up the phone and began praying. This is what my prayer sounded like, "Lord, do you want us to adopt? I don't have the gift of mercy...I just took that Spiritual Gifts test and it was last on my list. Am I that person who you want to adopt? Please show me if you want me to adopt! I need to know!" (or "I need a NEON SIGN").
As I started walking into Walmart (still praying), I turned to my right and there was Sarah! I am not kidding! I yelled, "Sarah!!! I just hung up from leaving you a message!" Tears filled my eyes! God, is that my "Neon Sign" or what? God is so good! We had a great conversation! She said she would e-mail me with the info on the Adoption Agency. Wow!
I was in awe! Why would God choose to love me enough to give me signs of what He wants in my life? Crazy!
When I got home, I went to check on the mail and right there was a Potterybarn BABY magazine. I am not kidding! I laughed!!!
As Sarah says, God will give us confirmation as we make each step. So pray that God will continue to guide us with each step. Whether we end up getting a baby girl or not...I am so amazed that God would love me enough to communicate with me today!

Will's Birthday At The Great Wolf!

2008-01-05T15:24:00.000-06:00

We just returned from The Great Wolf Lodge in Grapevine for Will's 8th Birthday "Sleepover" (which was his birthday "party" and "present" all rolled into one). We decided to celebrate Will's 8th birthday at the new hotel. His cousins got to stay, too! Each family rented a room for the night! What fun!
We got there around 4pm yesterday, checked in, and then went straight to the water park. We had dinner in one of the rooms including birthday cupcakes & presents for the birthday boy and two of his other cousins that celebrated birthdays in December (Kayli & Ty) We then headed back out to the water park. We went to bed around 9:30pm and were back in the water park about 9am this morning! The kids had a blast with their cousins (as always).
My favorite part was this morning going on the slides with all 3 of my boys. It was so much fun! I also loved sitting and reading my book (which I can't put down!).
Here are some pictures of the weekend...(I had cute music but you couldn't see the pictures)

More Info on Christmas...

2007-12-27T14:06:00.001-06:00

So, it has been a while since I have posted. I've been busy (along with the rest of the world).
Last Thursday, the boys had their school "holiday" party (to be Politically Correct). On Friday, we hung out as a family and watched the 2007 DVD I made (with pictures from the past year put to music) for Jeffrey. It was fun!
On Saturday, we met Jeffrey's family at Chuck E. Cheese (jealous?...ha ha!) for Ty's birthday. After CEC, we went to Toby & Michele's house for birthday cookie. After that, it was time to open Christmas presents with Papa Jerry. The boys were very excited! That night, they spent the night for a "Cousin Sleepover". Jeffrey and I had a quiet evening together and had breakfast out the next morning.
On Sunday, we went to Ft. Worth to see my grandparents. Jeffrey bought Granddad a t-shirt from A&M (G'dad had forgotten that Jeffrey went to A&M) and he put it on. I'm pretty sure that was the first t-shirt my granddad had ever worn I think!
On Monday, Jeffrey had to work (bummer). My parents got here around 1pm. Papa took the boys to see Alvin and the Chipmunks while mom and I got to get a mani/pedi! Yippee! After that, we went home to make dinner. We had tamales, enchiladas, and all the trimmings. Yummy! We all piled in the car and went to look at Christmas lights, got in our pjs, and then opened the boys presents from my parents. No church this year...don't tell anyone! We had limited time with my parents so we took advantage of it. Jeffrey gave me his "big" present. Guess what it was? He bound all of my blog entries for the past 1 1/2 years! Can you believe that??? So stinkin' thoughtful! I didn't even know he cared about my blog!!! I love having all the entries put together! He took off a day of work to do it. It took him 4 hours at Kinko's!! What a sweetie!!!
Jeffrey put the boys to bed as I frantically went with my dad to find some canned green beans! I had been to the store every day but forgot to pick up the green beans for the green bean casserole I was supposed to take to Mimi's house! Yikes! All grocery stores were closed! I e-mailed a few friends and Jean came through! She had frozen green beans which worked perfectly! Whew!
On Tuesday, the boys woke up at 5:45am (yes, I typed that correctly). They were excited to find their presents (see pictures) and we had a yummy "breakfast buffet" together. It was nice. At 11am, we went to Mimi and Pops house and said goodbye to Nana and Papa (they went to Memaw & G'dad's house). The kids were so excited to show their cousins their new presents and played until about 6pm!
Yesterday, we stayed in our pajamas all day long! Yes, I mean all day long! It was so great and relaxing (poor Jeffrey had to work!)! I even put away all the Christmas decorations!
But...Christmas isn't over yet! We still have Christmas with Mimi & Pops again on Sunday! Stay tuned for more pictures...

Christmas in Review...

2007-12-27T14:04:00.001-06:00

A Couple Pictures from the wedding...

2007-12-15T21:41:00.000-06:00

Bridesmaid Tea Party

2007-12-15T14:15:00.000-06:00

My friend, Lindsay, is getting married today. She is a teacher at Will & Jake's school, Will's teacher's roommate, and also goes to our church. I mentored her a little last year before she found "her man". She is precious and we share a love for tea. We thought it would be cute to have a Tea instead of a luncheon for her bridesmaids. Here are the pictures (I am very proud of my flower arrangements)....